RIP Yvette WIlson

Yvette Wilson, former star of “Moesha” and “The Parkers” has passed away from cervical cancer last night.  My condolences and prayers go out to her family and friends.  It’s sad for me, having been a big fan of “Moesha” when I was young.  Yvette makes the second person of the original cast of the show to have passed away.  The first was Lamont Bentley who was killed in a car accident in 2005. However sad this situation is, they are both in a better place now…

Regaining focus!

You know that moment when you’re on the Internet looking up something, let’s say potato chip brands, for example and then an hour later you’re on YouTube watching videos of puppies? Or when you come across an old picture in your room and an hour later you find yourself surrounded by hundreds of pictures of yourself as a baby. I had a combination of both of these moments happen to me today. Allow me to explain…

After coming across an old profile I had on some random website, I ended up reading all the posts from an old blog I had on Blogspot in 2008 and after an hour of reminiscing, I realized that I have completely lost sight of the bigger picture when it comes to blogging. When I started that blog 4 years ago, I had no plans, no focus but I still had so much fun doing it. And even though I had only a few subscribers, I still posted as though I had hundreds. Looking back, I realize that I am completely jealous of the 2008 me. She was excited and eager to just write because she remembered and kept in mind that it was her favorite thing to do.

Now a days, I’m way too focused on what’s “blog-worthy” and creating content that people will want to read, which is why most days, I completely dismiss the idea of blogging because I have no idea what to write about. I guess I just have to realize that there doesn’t have to be rules or restrictions. I should be able to just write about whatever I want! Besides, it’s soooo much more fun to do it that way!

My Gluten-Free Story

So you probably have heard at some point in your life, someone mention the word “gluten” or perhaps you were in a supermarket and saw a product that was labeled “gluten-free“.  Maybe you thought to yourself, “Well Geez….what is gluten and why are people making such a big deal about it?”  Or maybe you’ve even considered going “gluten-free” yourself because you’ve heard about some of the positive aspects of doing so.  Well for people like me that  have to eat things that are gluten-free, there’s always a story behind this process.

How it started:
In 2005, I was noticing slowly and slowly that the things I was eating were making me sick.  It started off little things until one night after a heavy meal at a seafood restaurant, I got really sick and remained so for about a week.  Not too long after, I was diagnosed with a condition called Celiac Disease which basically means that I”m allergic to gluten, which is basically a protein found in wheat and other grains similar to wheat like barley and rye.  In addition to that, sometimes having Celiac Disease means you can’t properly digest lactose either, which is found in dairy products so I’m also lactose intolerant.  Some people are just born with these conditions and don’t know any differently but unfortunately for me, I had spent the first 18 years of my life eating whatever I wanted without the side effect of an allergic reaction.  Once I discovered my allergies, I was, needless to say devastated.

The Long Journey:
I’ve always been a really picky eater so to find out that I had to basically change my entire diet did not sit well with me.  I was so reluctant to try the products that were gluten-free like the breads especially because I thought they would be nasty (and don’t get me wrong, some of them were) but I sucked it up and tried them anyway because the alternative, not having anything to eat or eating the wrong thing was much worse.

The next seven years was spent finding “dupes” for the things I loved to eat and alternative ways of making them.  So naturally, all the sweets stuff was first.  I replaced dairy ice cream with soy milk ice cream (my favorite brand is Purely Decadent from Soy Delicious).  Baked goods like cake were easy because all I had to do was replace the wheat flour with gluten free flour and the milk with a Lactose Free version like Farmland Dairies Special Request Lactose Free Skim Plus Milk.  Then the more savory items that required the use of either flour or milk (like fried chicken, gravy, mashed potatoes, cheese, pizza, etc…) came next.  Now that I’ve had a lot of time to experiment, I’ve pretty much mastered alternatives to my favorite dishes.  I even have the “non-celiac diseased” members of my family and friends eating this stuff too!

The Drawbacks:
Even after all this time there are still things that bother me about my allergies.  The main thing is what I refer to as “outside food.”  Its hard for me to find anything substantial to eat at restaurants or fast food places because nearly everything has gluten and or dairy in it.  Just think about the menu from MacDonald’s for example…hamburgers? No.  Fruit Parfait? No.  I can’t even eat their french fries because, guess what…they have gluten in them!  If that wasn’t bad enough, when I do go out to restaurants with friends or family, I have to endure the psychological pain of watching them eat all this yummy food while I’m stuck with something like a grilled chicken salad.  This usually results in me bringing food with me almost everywhere I go just so I don’t starve.

I do have a few go to places when it comes to “outside food” like basically any Chinese food restaurant which is, for the most party, dairy free and it’s easy to distinguish what has gluten in it or not.  And more and more restaurants, supermarkets and stores and slowly but surely adding gluten free menus and items to their stock.  I was so ecstatic when Bisquick came out with a gluten free pancake mix!  (I’m just waiting for Ihop to get the hint!)  

I basically wrote this post in hopes that someone who is recently diagnosed will read it and know that 1. They’re not alone and 2. It does get better.  Back when I was diagnosed, there was very little information I could find about gluten free diets and now there are cookbooks, websites, organizations, blogs, bakeries and so much more!

I hope you enjoyed this reeealllly long post!  And now I gotta go because all this talk about food made me hungry!

Easter Sunday Post

I hope everyone had a great Easter! Naturally, with it being a holiday and everything, I took the day off. I spent time with my bf, relaxed and ate lots and lots of baked ham! Then I remembered that I hadn’t posted today so here’s my Easter post!

I’ve also been distracted by Netflix and homework. I’m currently on this little thing called spring break which isn’t a break at all because teachers get all excited and assign you more work than usual to make up for the time you’re not in school. But on another note, Netflix can really suck up all your time. A few old episodes of 90210 later and all of the sudden it’s 11:30.

Anyway, as usual, regular content will resume tomorrow! So please, stay tuned!

Light shopping + Hanging with the besties

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This is a late post but there’s a good reason why. Today I hung out with my besties downtown and we did a little light shopping where I got these gorgeous pair of shoes from Aldo. It was a big deal for me to get these shoes because I’m kind of a cheap skate when it comes to buying clothes! (At least I’m woman enough to admit it!) I’m just proud of myself that I was able to put frugality aside and get a quality pair of shoes!

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I’m slowly re-building my spring/summer wardrobe so that I can be fly for the good weather! Hopefully there will be more great purchases to share!

BTW, I’ve added a new category to my blog, “Personally BelleMarie” for posts just like this where I share what I’m feeling or what I’m doing in my life! I hope you enjoy it!

Did I Blog Today?

This question pops into my head nearly every night: Did I blog today? And sometimes, because I’m getting old and my memory isn’t quite what it used to be, I have to physically look on my blog and make sure! And then when I haven’t blogged, I rack my brain for something good to post. This is especially true during the weekend and the days I go to school. On my days off during the week, I usually wake up early and get something cool posted.

But what usually happens the rest of the days is I spend so much time thinking of something “great” to put on my blog before the day is done, that I end up just putting it off until the next day and I write something like this!

I think my main problem is that I stress over making something that people will want to read when blogging should first and foremost be about putting something that you, yourself enjoy and ignoring everybody else. Sure, it would be great to have all these followers and readers and I appreciate every single like and or comment that I get, (really and truly) but at the end of the day, I need to blog to make me happy so that’s what I’m concentrating on, from now on!

🙂

Thanks for reading!
Sincerely,
BelleMarie

My Favorite Things…Right Now!

1. Wedding DashI play this game on my iPad but there’s versions of it for iPhone, iPod Touch, Android Devices and PC.  If you’re unfamiliar with the “dash” games, it basically goes like this:  You’re a wedding planner and you have to make your couples happy by throwing the perfect wedding reception.  The guests arrive, you seat them according to their liking, you serve them an appetizer, entree, and dessert and then they dance the night away.  Now it sounds easy but some guests don’t want to sit next to others, they have special requests, some are impatient and others are just really slow.  It’s a puzzle game, so that means you gotta get the wheels in your noggin turning a bit to master this game successfully!

2. Tia’s Gluten Free DessertsThis is a brand that I discovered at a Whole Foods Market about a month ago and they make the best desserts!  I haven’t talked about it before but I have an allergy to gluten and dairy but these desserts are made without both.  So far I’ve tried Tia’s Gluten Free Tropical Banana Cake and the Strawberry Shortcake and they’re both so soft, sweet and succulent; words can’t even express how great they are!  And on top of that, its all healthy and made with natural, organic ingredients!  You can’t beat that!

3. Scented CandlesLately I’ve been really fixated on scented candles.  I light one in my room every day and even when it’s not lit, I keep it nearby just to pick up the smell.  For the longest time, my Mom and I have lit this one candle from Bath and Body Works all over the house and its Eucalyptus Spearmint and it smells SO FRIGGIN GOOD!  In my room, I like more Cinnamon-y/Nutmeg-y smells like my current favorite in Pumpkin Nutmeg Pie and natural/floral smells like another one I love in Terra Cotta Sunrise.  I mostly get my candles from drug stores but Bath and Body Works has a lot of great ones and they’re currently on sale!

4. The Fancy.comThis website is along the lines of Pintrest but a little more amplified, as far as I’m concerned.  TheFancy.com allows you to kind of compile a list of all the things you love by “Fancy-ing” them and some of the items you can actually purchase if you click on the links provided.  Basically, it’s become a way for me to just stare and drool at pretty and cool things I wish I could have!

5. Garage BandIf you’ve read a few of my post, you might have guessed that I LOVE music!  Well, I say what’s better than listening to music than actually making your own music!  And with Garage Band, the great thing is that you don’t have to have a lick of any musical instrument ability to make a cool song!  Everything is made into neat little short cuts!  I’ve had this app on my iPad ever since the day I got it but recently, after the new update which added string instruments to the collection (which includes keyboards, drums, basses and guitars) I’ve rekindled my love affair with this program!  I swear I feel like Pharrell or Timbaland or some other big music mogul in the studio cutting tracks! (Yea, right!  I wish I was that cool!)

Is there anything you’re obsessed with lately!  Let me know!  I can’t possibly be the only one!
Until then, Thanks for reading!

Weather gets nice, People get crazy!

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Today was yet another nice day weather wise, in NYC, it hit almost 70 today. It was beautiful, breezy and sunny which of course means that people were dressed like freaks!

I don’t know if it’s like this in other states but in NYC especially, every time the weather gets a little nice, women think its ok to walk outside with short shorts, summer dresses and spaghetti straps. Then they get sick and spread their nasty germs, then before you know it, everybody around you has a cold!!!!

Please, Ladies (and gentlemen, you guys are guilty too!) save the summer wear for summer. You look ridiculous walking around half naked while the rest of us sane people are a touch more bundled up! Then you know what happens….my friends and I make fun of you! Just the other day I had a good laugh with a friend of mine over a guy walking down the street in 40 degree weather with a short sleeved shirt on, trying to look cool!

Not a good look people!

I love you all! I’m just trying to help! 🙂